Am I ever going to get this blog thing right?

Like gosh! I guess I am computer illiterate at times, like what the heck!!! I want something appealing to the eye. I try and try and never seems to get me anywhere! I am trying to link blogs, add music, have great photos and great reading material! I think I should just change my blog name to, "My blog bites". Kind of catchy if you ask me! I just don't get it....